I want to be honest about what I'm looking for. Life is short, and I want to enjoy it in my own way. That could simply be dinner together, spending an hour together, or even a whole night in a hotel room—as long as it feels right for both of us. A short relationship or a long one depends on how we feel. I always want to respect that. For me, respect and a sense of security are very important. We give each other space, without clinging or putting pressure on each other, and we savor the moments we share together.